hmm, I believe I don't have much to say as I don't really experience depression myself. The worst one is just a stress that affect my menstruation.
In my opinion, they have no right to do "anything" they want to their child. Hitting, screaming and humiliating is already out of bonds. I forgot where I read this but someone said about child is a "gift" from God. Not everyone can have a child due to various reason and so when God gave you a child you need to protect him/her till he/she can "stand" at his/her own feet.
I have a bit experience of violence in my home, that's only happened till my 4th primary school and all done from my mother ^^ It's just a little slapping and the worst one is she slapped me with a ruler but it's not something that tore a scar in my heart (or maybe a little but it's not affecting me much).
I agree with rurikonialenora that you need a place to share your problem. Just telling this story to someone is good enough I think, because I'm not someone who can tell this to anyone, you're a very brave girl :)
Also, if you think going to a psychologist can help you than I suggest you to keep visiting her ^^ (though it's hard so that your parents blind about it and money can be a problem too)
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10/5/14 14:47 (UTC)In my opinion, they have no right to do "anything" they want to their child. Hitting, screaming and humiliating is already out of bonds. I forgot where I read this but someone said about child is a "gift" from God. Not everyone can have a child due to various reason and so when God gave you a child you need to protect him/her till he/she can "stand" at his/her own feet.
I have a bit experience of violence in my home, that's only happened till my 4th primary school and all done from my mother ^^ It's just a little slapping and the worst one is she slapped me with a ruler but it's not something that tore a scar in my heart (or maybe a little but it's not affecting me much).
I agree with rurikonialenora that you need a place to share your problem. Just telling this story to someone is good enough I think, because I'm not someone who can tell this to anyone, you're a very brave girl :)
Also, if you think going to a psychologist can help you than I suggest you to keep visiting her ^^ (though it's hard so that your parents blind about it and money can be a problem too)